People do see the beauty, that we don't see in ourselves
I'm still linked to a facebook page were a whole bunch of girls who are involved in the subculture of "hardcore" interact. A fellow member posted this video. It may be sponsored by a company like Dove but it does point out the way women see themselves. This may also be contributed to the way we compare ourselves to what we see and what we want to be with the additive of advertisements all around us that define what beauty is.